6917 Arlington Road Suite 216
Bethesda, MD 20814
Day, Evening and Weekend Appointments Available
How many times has this happened to you? You come home and can see that your partner is stressed out and unhappy. You ask what’s wrong and s/he tells you about something crappy going on at work or with friends. Being the good partner that you are you offer your advice to your beloved only to […]
Many of you have heard me say that the longer you know your partner, the less you may really know him or her. This is because of our tendency to interpret what our partner says based on our world view instead of taking the time to understand where your partner is coming from Because of […]
The Harvard Negotiation Project spent years studying hundreds of conversations in great detail. They discovered that there is an underlying structure to every conversation. It turns out that no matter what the subject is, each conversation has three levels to it: What Happened Feelings Identity The reason conflicts go unresolved is that the vast majority […]
It’s hard to be married or in a committed relationship. How hard? The numbers vary somewhat depending on which study you read, but it’s estimated that anywhere from 40% to 50% of first marriages end in divorce. The odds of a successful relationship get slimmer with each go round – roughly two out of three […]
When I tell people what I do one of the questions I’m most often asked is “why do couples seek therapy”. The most common couples reason couples offer is communication, but in my experience the real reason most couples come to therapy is that they’ve forgotten how to be a couple with everything else being […]
After over 25 years of practice I’m convinced that the hardest part of therapy is reaching out with that first phone call or email to inquire about an appointment.
In all likelihood you came to this page because you’ve been struggling or suffering for quite awhile. Most research indicates that couples start therapy on average about 6 years after problems started spinning out of control. By this I mean 6 years after the fights start getting difficult to recover from, when you both start labeling one another and seeing one another through stereotypical lenses.
Once these bad habits start they tend to progress and get worse over time. Most of us think that we can manage it ourselves, we just need to do this or that and things will get better.
Except they don’t.
Despite their best efforts people find themselves having the same feelings, the same fights, the same sense of desperation.
Chances are that if there were an answer you could find on your own you would have discovered it by now. Every day you wait makes it a little worse.
You don’t have to struggle on your own; give a call (240-485-6053) or drop a line (DrJoe@DrJoeJames.com) for a free 20-minute consultation where we can talk and figure out what the best course of action may be for you.
6917 Arlington Road
Suite 216.
Bethesda, MD 20814
Call: 240-485-6053
Day, evening and weekend appointments available.