From the Blog
Every couple goes through hard stretches. Stress piles up, communication gets clipped, the warmth between you goes quiet for a while. Most of the time, things find their way back on their own. But sometimes they don’t — and knowing the difference between a temporary rough patch and a problem
One of the most common questions I get from people considering individual therapy is some version of this: Does it matter whether I do this in person or online? It’s a fair question — and the honest answer is that it depends. Not on which format is objectively better, but
It’s one of the most common situations couples counseling ever deals with — and it usually starts before anyone even walks through the door. One partner wants to go to therapy. The other doesn’t. And now there’s an argument about whether to have the argument in front of a professional.
Most couples don’t notice it happening in real time. Usually, there’s no single moment, no dramatic turning point. One day, you look up and realize that the person you share a home and a life with has become someone you mostly coordinate logistics with. You’re not fighting. You’re not miserable.