Many of you have heard me say that the longer you know your partner, the less you may really know him or her. This is because of our tendency to interpret what our partner says based on our world view instead of taking the time to understand where your partner

How many times has this happened to you? You come home and can see that your partner is stressed out and unhappy. You ask what’s wrong and s/he tells you about something crappy going on at work or with friends. Being the good partner that you are you offer your